I think that when people read fiction, they're really reading for wisdom. I am. That's what most of us really love…
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I am hesitantly stepping into 2022, much like stepping onto a frozen pond, not sure if the ice is solid enough to hold me. I remember skating as a child on too thin ice…
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December is usually a difficult month for me. Childhood memories, my drive for perfectionism, and the obligations to socialize usually result in a stressful month, my anxiety at a peak...
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Honoring our endings allows us to reflect on how we’ve grown, brings awareness to the ways we are developing, and supports us in connecting to what lies ahead…
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What I call a windy day, the hawk regards as a carnival ride. While she inscribes great swooping arcs across the sky, I’m just trying to control my hair…
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My doctor makes a point of asking how I am doing every time I see her. I don’t mean that she asks about my aches and pains…
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Let the story of who you were send shivers down the spines of our granddaughters. Let them hear about you…
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A baby cries in the night, and you go to pick him up. What were you going to do, take a book off a shelf and read what some expert has to say?
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There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. A time to be born and a time to die…
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Every story begins inside a story that’s already begun by others. Long before we take our first breath, there’s a plot well underway…
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My name was stolen from me at birth. My parents had chosen a name for me, but wanted to keep it secret until my birth.…
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A few years back I shared a quote from my bulletin board with a client I was mentoring. Curiously, she asked me, what else do you have on your bulletin board?…
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Twenty-five years ago I purchased a copy of Goodbye Mother, Hello Woman feeling the need to learn more about mother-daughter relationships…
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Twice last week I was asked my occupation, and for the first time since I wrapped up my last consulting contract in January, I said I was retired. It was not easy to say…
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David Whyte has a new book of poetry coming out, Still Possible, a title which he says perhaps speaks to all of us at every threshold in our lives, and most particularly in this time…
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I am huddled in an Adirondack chair on the deck of our island home kept warm by my flannel nightgown and my husband’s hoodie, my quilt wrapped tight around me…
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Thirteen years ago today, I bought the convertible VW bug featured in the photo as an early 50th birthday present to myself….
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These days I am feeling the depth of my friendships. I can count my closest friends on two hands – you know who you are. Then there is this broader circle of women who I also call my friends…
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My mother has been riding a medical rollercoaster this week and I have been along for the ride. It is time for a break…
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I am already awake this morning, even though the sky is still dark and the hallways are silent. I woke up on my mother’s couch this morning, stiff, tired, and with a vague headache…
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